Just take care that someone else’s personality does not dominate you in such a way that you cannot grow and express your own self.
It is important to balance your need for outer-world- accomplishments with care for your inner self. Also, take great care not to lose sight of the needs of your loved ones.
Drama is your mantra. Perceiving life as a game with high stakes, you are just as passionate when you win as when you lose.
You are devoted to your ideals and beliefs, and will play the game to the end, displaying your boundless enthusiasm no matter what the outcome. You despise static, unchanging and unyielding situations, and will put forth your best efforts to change them. With your courage, energy and dramatic flair, you can be an effective leader, and will be the first in line to explore uncharted regions.
Your tendency to act first and think later, however, may lead others to accuse you of insensitivity. Learn to be more aware of others’ feelings. Realize that your actions affect others’ lives in ways that you may not have considered. Remember to develop sensitivity and appraise situations intellectually before you act with your heart.
When the situation demands that you change in order to move forward, you can adapt and transform yourself with ease. You are not necessarily the pioneering type, but if change must happen, it is natural for you to glide along with the flow. At times, though, you feel that you are at the mercy of forces beyond your control, and are constantly being blown from pole to pole. This may make you feel nervous and anxious, but like everything else in your life, this, too, will pass.
You are primarily concerned with providing a strong and secure foundation for yourself and for your loved ones. You prefer to work behind the scenes, letting others reap the glory. Your home and your family will be more important to you than the outer trappings of a successful career — indeed you would be happiest working in or near your home.
If you count to ten, (or even to a hundred) before making an important decision, the mood will pass so you can see to the truth of things.
You tend to seek emotional security outside yourself, and look for it instead in a significant other. You expect this person to provide all the comfort and emotional support that you need. Without this important relationship, you tend to feel lost, alone and alienated, but within it you are self-confident and assured. Be careful that neither you nor your partner become overly possessive and jealous of time spent away from the other.
Usually your thoughts and ideas are interesting enough to hold the attention of others, but you have to learn to become as good a listener as you are a talker. Don’t try to hog the whole conversation all the time, or you will drive people away from you, which is the opposite of what you intend. Take a breath once in a while, and let others talk. You will be surprised to find that they are almost as interesting as you are.
Generally speaking, you have an abundance of energy that makes you buoyantly optimistic. You also have an innate sense of good timing so that when you do take action, something positive and beneficial seems to occur. Others call you lucky, but it’s not that — your upbeat, far-sighted attitude puts you in the right place at the right time and allows you to do whatever is necessary to seize the moment. You may have good athletic skills, but you also definitely have leadership potential.
You have a high level of energy, and it is rarely under control. You should be prepared at all times to face the unexpected, because the only thing that you can be sure of is that the unexpected will occur. Your daredevil, eccentric approach to life makes accidents (both of the physical and psychological variety) likely because you tend not to follow the dictates of common sense. Your natural rebelliousness pushes you to choose the more dangerous road, so remember to keep your seat belt buckled.
But often your deep-seated fears and anxieties seem to take control of your life and run it. When this happens, professional counseling may help you discriminate between what is real and concrete and what is imaginary and illusory, and can restore your ability to function in the world.